We’re not on for a children’s talk at church for a while, but I’ve been trying to thrash out some ideas that work and some that didn’t in advance. I thought I’d jot them down here because, as Steve found out in Adelaide a while back (see e~mergent kiwi: stories of failure), it’s useful to hear of things that didn’t work out as well as those that did.
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Jesus as train conductor
A talk I did ages ago after seeing the guards on the train go around the carriage making obviously exhausted school kids give up their seats for fit and healthy adults. The children and I made a big train track at the front of the church using Lego Duplo trains. It’s been a while but I’m sure it included the value of children in the Kingdom of God, Jesus buying tickets for us to ride the train to God, the train stopping anywhere to let people on, and ‘I’m going to ride that glory train’ gospel choir music.
What didn’t work so well: The track took a long time to build (and hence took ‘too long’ for the slot given according to some ‘grown ups’), and I forgot to invite interested adults down to see the train. Several adults and older youth wanted to see the train too, but we had to pack it up. I now often stop and ask if anyone from the back seats wants to have look at what we’re doing down the front.
Hand puppets
It seemed like a good idea at the time to use a zebra hand puppet for the talk. Forgot to work out clearly what the point of the talk was first, and then use the puppet to augment that. I’m sure I had something to work with but it didn’t integrate well. Got the big ‘thumbs down’ from my family evaluation for that one.
House on the sand and the rock
Literally made sand castles and rock piles at front of church and then poured water on them. What happened to them? Also read the parable from “The Lion Storyteller Bible†(Bob Hartman) (which I think is quite good).
What didn’t work so well: The activity worked well. The story worked well. Together they took too long. I’d retell the parable while we did the activity next time. Also, using lots of sand and water up the front caused a few of the church managers to worry about the carpet.
Prayers in the darkness
Talked about Jesus being the light of the world, and also about the importance of prayer - both individually and corporately. Used the example of some small tealight candles. One on it’s own in a dark place makes a real difference, but a whole lot make a huge difference. On the whole it worked well, but…
It’s really hard to make our church dark so the effect of the tealights didn’t work so well as I thought it might. Also need another adult to keep an eye on the candles so they don’t get bumped or touched (I had them on a plank down on the floor). Using a gas match allowed the kids to light them safely though. (Also, the odd comment that we’re not Catholic so don’t need candles from adults who missed the point of the talk - sigh).
Who’s loved the most by God?
Kim did this and it worked really well. It was impromptu and the kids all came to the party. Kim had the four kids arrange themselves in different orders - age, height (not the same as age), ticklishness, love of a particular food (I think). And then she had them arrange themselves in the order of who was loved most by her. The kids all clumped together so she could hug them all the same. And so an analogy for God’s love.
Possible problems: If one of the kids is in a bad mood or is feeling like mucking around it might not work. Also they needed to be confident with their mother showing them affection in public. (I don’t think I could have pulled this one off, but Kim did).
Strength in numbers
Got adult ‘volunteer’ from the congregation and put them on a chair. Then wrapped a strong of wool around them and had them stand up. Then repeated it with a bit more wool and had them ‘break free’ again. Finally, wrapped the ‘victim’ in enough wool to immobilize him. Then dressed him in a funny hat, glasses and face paint. The point being that sometimes individuals need to work with others to achieve a task. It’s a pretty general talk, but I’ve adapted it several times to deal with particular things from Scripture that are up for discussion.
Downside: Don’t pick a ‘victim’ who can’t take a joke. Also don’t pick a claustrophobe.
The humanity of Jesus
Did this just after Christmas when my youngest (who was born just before Christmas) was only a few weeks old. Wanted to connect that that Jesus in the Christmas story (who we forget about after Dec 25 often) was incarnated as real flesh and blood. So we counted toes and fingers (and marvelled at their smallness), checked out the clothes and blankets, and talked about babies in general. Just trying to get beyond the Christmas card Jesus to the God who ‘became flesh and blood, and moved into the neighborhood.’
Downside: I didn’t check with Kim first about ‘borrowing’ fourth-born for the talk. Ouch!
That’s all for now.